How Living in Hawaii Changed Me for the Better
It is sort of surreal to think that eight years ago I set out on the adventure of a lifetime.
Living in Hawaii is one of those stories I can’t stop talking about, even after all these years (like your one friend that used to be vegan, or the ex dude that did you dirty). Sometimes I even annoy myself when I begin to boast about that one time I called Hawaii home, but the truth is, that chapter of my life was a big plot twist where everything changed.
I vividly remember the day in 2012 when I cashed in my one-way-ticket to paradise. At the time, I was just a girl with the wish to become something more. Little did I know that the entire experience would eventually transform me into the motivating mermaid I am today!
In honor of my island-versary, I want to share with you how living in Hawaii changed me for the better.
1. Slowed Me Down
Thanks to the sluggish speed limit, when you live in Hawaii you learn how to move a little bit slower. But really— What’s the rush? There is a thing the locals call “island time” meaning stuff is done at a more leisurely pace. The mainland mindset trained me to always be— go, go, go. But Hawaii helped slow my roll, gifting me with more patience, more peace and more time to actually enjoy life!
2. Turned Me Into a Natural Beauty
Before I moved to the islands I used to straighten my curls, cake on my makeup, and want a boob job. Then, as I settled in to this new environment I found my hair frizzing up and skin breaking out from the humidity. I knew there was no fighting it, instead I embraced my natural side and learned how to be confident in my own skin. Ironically, my true beauty started to shine and now I have reached a point where people are more attracted to my energy than the size of my seashells.
3. Made Me Self-Sufficient
I didn’t know a single soul when I set out on my journey. Distancing myself from everyone I knew and loved helped me find comfort in my own company. I was able to connect with myself on a deeper level by learning how to support myself, take care of myself, make choices for myself, and trust in myself. Growing into my own person helped me recognize the drive, talent, and ability I possess. With that kind of awareness, I now know whatever life throws my way, I will always be able to count on myself. A lot of us are defined by the family, community, or #squad we associate with, but it is important to take a step back and connect with the core of who YOU are.
4. Ignited My Passions
Since I learned how to slow my roll and spend time solo, I found myself doing more of the things that fueled me with joy. I started running marathons, reading books, journaling ideas, watching sunsets, hosting trivia nights, writing blog posts, and dressing up like a mermaid! I became aware of what lights me up, what pisses me off, and how I enjoy spending my days. Eventually, these passions turned into a way of life and have put me on a whole new path where happiness is my main motive!
5. Taught Me to Let Go
Still to this day I catch myself daydreaming of palm trees swaying in the tradewinds. Yearning for the feeling of warm sunshine on my skin, and craving the crystal clear waters to cleanse my salty soul. Moving off-island was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but in my heart, I knew that letting go is what I needed to do if I ever wanted to reach the next level of my life.
It is easy to fall in love with the beauty of Hawaii (and the beauty of a year-round tan) but I needed to challenge myself in new ways and put this new version of me to the test. I know reconnecting with my California roots has been a crucial part of my own personal growth because it has given me time to step back and see how much the islands have truly changed me for the better.
I mean shit, I am a freaking mermaid! Does it get any better than that?!
Hawaii will always have my heart— and who knows, maybe I will call it home again one day. But as for now, I can proudly say I am happy with who I am and where my life is headed!
xx Fins & Kisses,
The Mermaid